Right? I am nuts?
wow --- I think you are full of nutty dim wits.
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(just now)
Right? I am nuts?
wow --- I think you are full of nutty dim wits.
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(2 mins ago)
move on man dam, im glad imnot hooking up with you your nuts
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(3 mins ago)
I was only trying to commit to following your "lead" mentioned in your profile, in this way.
Sorry for disturbing your silence of your day.
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(4 mins ago)
You say "No games" in your profile.
Well, this might say to you -- I am no game player !
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(11 mins ago)
I am done here. BLOCK ME IF NEED -- BUT I OPEN UP THE CONVERSATION TO BETTER WAYS.
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(12 mins ago)
This is POSTED at "The Secret of Conversation Flow" @ ImproveYourSocialSkills
Invitation And Inspiration
Obviously, invitations are really useful. They can protect your
conversations from grinding to a halt, and they are a powerful tool for
building intimacy and rapport with your conversation partner.
However, as handy as invitations are, you can't build an entire
conversation out of them. If the entire conversation consists of
explicit invitations, it will feel awkward---like an interview instead
of a conversation. Natural-feeling conversation flows from one speaker
to the next, sometimes with explicit invitations, but often not.
Fortunately, you don't need to rely on invitations. In our next lesson,
I'll show you how you can use inspiration to keep conversation flowing
smoothly and feeling natural.
When conversations flow smoothly, people feel comfortable sharing even
without an invitation. They'll chime in whenever they have something
they want to share and feel encouraged to share it.
This means that in order to create conversational flow, you should:
Make your partner comfortable
Inspire your partner to want to share
Making your partner comfortable is pretty straightforward. Be friendly,
pay attention to their body language, and give good invitations so they
know you really want to know them better.
But what do I mean by inspiring your partner?
Well, picture two artists taking turns while painting together. The
first artist might tell the second artist, "Hey, why don't you put some
blue here?" and the second artist might respond with "Ok, then you
should put some yellow over there."
That's an invitation, and you can certainly make a painting (or a conversation!) using nothing but invitations.
But there's a better way.
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(15 mins ago)
[ This is POSTED ON MY WALL] :
Quality Over Quantity:
A stated "Intention" says you are going to follow through into a motion.
"Following through" into a motion says there Is a recognition In the
change of your mind from intention thus brings a new action.
The rules Here:
[1] All are equal here.
[2] If you are stuck at intention at any time to follovi through into action
and motion, Please restate that intention is not true. Do not waste the time of others in this space waiting and reading you..
They must see, or recognize, your intentions are moving to action.
Others may state you're not following through at anytime it is
apparent.
But for sure when you know there will never be an action from
your stated intention(s). please leave at the time when either you
know you do not belong here in this space or you're hidden
agenda(s) are called out upon you. That is peaceful and respectful.
Do not argue one more cycle of waste time stated Intentions. It may be
silent to you, but it is not a peaceful way of being with others.
Do not return here until you can be honest and free flowing with no
hidden agendas. Thank you.
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(17 mins ago)
As each persons passes into a perspective, I don't know you --
and you don't know me. But then again, you don't know that other person
either. So, if you remain silent to your intent and need, I can move
into any kind of mind frame reference with you, because you have not
stated any position on the matter. But then when you do, it is of
frustration not desire of understanding. I am trying to me the BEST at
WHAT CAN BE DONE -- if that PERSON NEEDED that level of structure.
Because SOME PEOPLE DO.
I don't know if that would have been you in this moment. Because we are
not all the same, we should ALLOW OURSELVES TO DISCUSS our motivations
to fuck.
But 8pm --- you will forget what you said.... because you have committed
it to real world outside of this space. that of course is a jaded
opinion of you, based upon common time after time experiences here.
GOOD DAY SIR.
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(22 mins ago)
not that serious man im just fucking you, but im good thanks
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(24 mins ago)
after 8pm then. I was just comparing my experince with
calendars -- so that I would tell you that I will place your 8pm into my
calendar -- if you like to .
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(25 mins ago)
bro never mind this way to much.
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